In the last week, there have been two things that have made me think of this old-fashioned and unwelcomed term of 'housewife'. Last week, when the police officer was getting my details after the burglary, she asked my occupation. I am not sure what this has to do with being burgled, but I digress. Anyway, I said I didn't have a job, that I was a 'Stay At Home Mum'. She wrote 'housewife' on her form. I shuddered but didn't say anything.
Yesterday I read this very articulate and entertaining blog (http://thewhimwhamlife.blogspot.co.uk/2013/11/why-i-choose-to-be-stay-at-home-mom.html) by Bonnie Ilyn, who has a similar dilemma. I wish I knew or could invent an amazing term that would encapsulate what a stay at home parent does but that doesn't disparage those parents who work part-time or full-time. I used to work part-time when we only had our daughter. And it was hectic. And it doesn't feel anymore relaxed now that we have two kids and I am at home every day.
I do work. Not in a paid job with colleagues and a boss who respect me. I work for little people who shriek and don't believe in 9 to 5. I work solely for cuddles and kisses, which are abundant in my house. I won't list everything I do, because many people do the same if not more. I keep the kids and the house ticking along. And to assuage the guilt of not working, I help out with the PTA. I am not a 'housewife'. I am the Family Manager. I am the Director of Household. I am the Chief Executive of Domestic Bliss.
Time to update my CV. What is your occupation?